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Where is the best place to look for a board or flatmate situation if you are 57 years old? An aquaintance of mine is in this situation at the moment - couldn't afford to rent by himself so was boarding for a short time, but the property is now being sold. I have been searching on his behalf but most of the flatmate situations are suggesting ideal flatmate 20 and 30 year olds and he would feel a bit out of place. He is hoping for something in Auckland Onehunga, One tree hill areas as a boarder but where to look? Are there specific sites offering board situations?

pauline999 - 2021-06-11 15:25:00
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looked under "flatmates " on here- 24 in onehunga area at moment

alleycatz - 2021-06-11 15:38:00
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I have been looking on here in the flatmates options but they are ideally looking for 20-30 year age group and my friend is 57.

pauline999 - 2021-06-11 16:10:00
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Ask on Neighbourly? I am aware of older people flatting as opposed to boarding. Is there a specific reason he wants board rather than living with a group of people? I have had flatting situations where we have had all ages. Can he rent and ask for flatmates himself?

shanreagh - 2021-06-11 16:40:00
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Hi Shanreagh, he has been in a flatting situation before but has ended up in financial difficulties when the flatmate didn't pay rent so prefers to either board or go as a flatmate himself. I have posted on Neighbourly but no leads there. so far.

pauline999 - 2021-06-11 17:06:00
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pauline999 wrote:

Hi Shanreagh, he has been in a flatting situation before but has ended up in financial difficulties when the flatmate didn't pay rent so prefers to either board or go as a flatmate himself. I have posted on Neighbourly but no leads there. so far.

It would probably be easier for for him to rent a bigger place and pick boarders/flatmates himself. But it could be not viable during the times of hardship...

Edited by evoalg at 9:29 pm, Fri 11 Jun

evoalg - 2021-06-11 21:29:00
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Tell him to join the local area community facebook pages, there are often rooms/flats to let on those, rather than TM etc.

rhys12 - 2021-06-11 21:48:00
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evoalg wrote:

It would probably be easier for for him to rent a bigger place and pick boarders/flatmates himself. But it could be not viable during the times of hardship...

Yes my thoughts too. Set it up so bonds are paid and lodged and with a tenants agreement from the Tenancy Tribunal website. Each one buys/cooks their own way. Also does their own thing as far as entertainment. Can add the electricity etc up and average out over a week or charge as it comes due. Comes back to flatmate selection.

I'm an older person I have had flatmates for years. You get bad ones but very rarely in my case. My longest staying one has been over 8 years and would still be here if Covid has not struck and he had taken early retirement.

shanreagh - 2021-06-11 21:48:00
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Just saw a couple of ads in North shore times, has he looked there? I guess it's be around the shore, but whatever local paper they have in onehunga, will have those. One says rooms to rent, complete reno, grey lynn and mt eden, looking for mature, responsible and working tenants. Herald should have masses and the people that post there would be older(who does newspapers nowadays?) Has he posted an ad himself?

evoalg - 2021-06-11 22:05:00
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alleycatz wrote:

looked under "flatmates " on here- 24 in onehunga area at moment

Did you actually read what the OP said?

brouser3 - 2021-06-12 07:50:00
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We have put adverts in Onehunga Community, on facebook, neighbourly and cards in the local supermarket info boards, also asking around. Has to be Onehunga area as he is the local postie with his e-bike.Most of the flatmate adverts are asking for younger age group for a good fit in the existing flat dynamics and 57 is not considered the best fit for either party, Thanks for all the suggestions.

pauline999 - 2021-06-12 09:21:00
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You're a good friend, pauline999.

sparkychap - 2021-06-12 09:28:00
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The member deleted this message.

kiwilandchch - 2021-06-19 19:59:00
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I've used the site nzflatmates before, it seems to have a wider range of ages (and you register with your age and the ages of existing flatmates is also visible).
It's free to browse but from memory I did have to pay a one-off fee of $10 or something to contact people.

huggy5 - 2021-06-22 15:38:00
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